02.21.09What makes you so happy?
Well.. Are you even happy with where or who you are right now? Uh. I am. :)
Most people would immediately tell me that if they had a lot of money, they'd be so happy. Or that if they have a whole lot of gadgets like new phones, new cameras or new laptops - they'd be uber happy. Some of them would make it more general! Like having new stuff -
material things i.e. clothes, shoes, slippers, make-up, gadgets, cars and the like make them happy.
Some would be hard on their physical features - not really liking what they actually see in the mirror every morning. We were made to be what we look like right now. I mean.. We shouldn't ask for more than what we have now. I'm not saying that it's
that bad to do that. Pero the more we complain and long for perfection, the more we feel bad about how we look like. Our nose structure, our pimples, our lips and even our waistline! :)) Well.. Some would even go to the extent of undergoing lypos or surgeries just to be "happy", right?
Erm.. If we would just take a deep look into the topic, we would actually see that good relationships with people are the root of real happiness. (Oh, yung mga walang bf/gf dyan - wag maglaslas. :D) By the phrase
good relationships, i intend to mean sociability levels. These relationships may include your family, friends and even your loved ones! :)
Lookie here.. If you reminisce on the moments wherein you're not in good terms with your brother or your mom and dad - you weren't
that happy, riggght? Or when you and your bestfriend suddenly had a misunderstanding - you feel really uneasy, right? And since I don't have the next criterion.. :)) (BITTER!) Uh. Or when you and your bf/gf suddenly had a fight over some who-knows-what reason, you wouldn't be able to concentrate on whatever it is that you're doing, dba? Hehe.
The happiest people spend the least time alone. Remember that. :) And don't climb that social ladder just to make yourself happy. Look for real authentic friends who would stay with you till who-know-when. HAHA.